The Mommy Diaries

It's about that time again!

2012-01-25T18:38:00.001-05:00

Lincoln and I are visiting my Dad in sunny Orlando for a few days! Which also means this post is coming to you straight from my iPhone. I'm not too sure how that's going to effect the formatting, so I apologize if this post looks funky.

I'm not sure what's on our agenda this visit, but I'm *hoping* to visit one of the parks. We'll see how much energy my Dad has.

Lincoln was a little trooper during our flight down here. He totally loves flying & is starting to really know the routine. Maybe he'll be a pilot when he grows up!

I'm not too sure how much posting I'll get to do during our stay...if any, for that matter. I do have such exciting news to share with you when we get back home...and no, I'm not pregnant.

Here's a photo from our flight yesterday. Nothing but blue skies!!!

Wordless Wednesday: Cheese Face

2012-01-25T10:00:00.000-05:00

Educational Learning Tablets for Toddlers

2012-01-21T15:56:00.000-05:00

Wow. That sure is a mouthful, huh?!

The other day I did something I swore I would never do. I download apps on my iPhone for my toddler. I know I know, it's really not a heck of a big deal, and while I know that many people let their kids play with their phones...I would just prefer if Lincoln had something else to do. I'm sure the hefty price of an iPhone might have something to do with my reasoning.

I wanted to see what was offered for educational apps. What I found was seriously A TON! Loads and loads of pages full of apps that can apparently "teach" my toddler. I downloaded a bunch of free ones. Some I liked, while others got deleted immediately.

Lincoln was quite impressed with this new "toy" Mommy discovered for him. His favorite app is this "game" where you pop balloons. The balloons have letters on them, & when you pop one, it says the name of the letter. Pretty neat! And, while Lincoln is probably more excited about actually popping the balloons & celebrating when he successfully pops them all, I am ~~certain~~ hoping he's learning little something!

So, I've mentioned I don't really like him playing with my phone. Hmm. What to do? I started to research specific tablets designed for toddlers. Here's what I came up with.

The Leap Frog LeapPad Explorer. Looks pretty neat, huh?

The VTech InnoTab. Looks like the screen is slightly smaller. But I like a lot of the features.

And last, is the VTech MobiGo. I like how compact this one is, and it has the most appealing price tag of the three.

So, which one do I go with? I also should add that the LeapPad and the InnoTab say for ages 4+, while the MobiGo says 3+. Not sure if that matters much, because I'm pretty sure an iPhone isn't designed for a two year old. A lot of people have recommended just getting him an iPod Touch. While this seems like a great idea, I had an iTouch before my iPhone....and I cracked the screen. I'm sure it would only be a matter of days before that would happen. And honestly, I kind of think it's a bit ridiculous to get a two year old his own iPod Touch.

Does your toddler have a learning tablet, or do you just suck it up and let him/her play with your phone?

AHH-MAZING Oatmeal!!

2012-01-20T10:00:00.001-05:00

I think one of the hardest things when you move out of your parents house and get married, is becoming your very own domesticated goddess. Or in my case, undomesticated. Folks, I've set chicken nuggets on fire in the microwave. I'm not the next gourmet chef, to say the least.

As much as I lack greatness in my cooking abilities, it doesn't stop me from trying! Lately I've been trying to whip up some new yummy and healthy foods for our family.

The other day I made these whole wheat apple cinnamon oatmeal muffins. I got the recipe from Pinterest. Big shocker there, I know. These muffins were disgusting. My poor Lincoln kept asking to try them because he loves muffins...& cupcakes, which he probably was hoping even more so that's what these were. But each time he took a bite, he'd quickly make his yucky face & spit it out. Not that I could blame him. They were tasteless. I don't know where I went wrong, because they sounded absolutely delish!

Moving forward. I was visiting The Heir to Blair's blog. She posted this [what sounded yummy] recipe for homemade oatmeal. Awesome. I love oatmeal. I've never actually made it from scratch, though. However, I felt up for the adventure...& let me just say I am SO glad I made this oatmeal. I think it's going to be a new staple in our house. It's freaking delicious!!!

Now I know you all want the recipe to this yumminess, however I must give credit where credit is do. So if you'd like to whip up your own batch, click here. I added mashed banana and canned pumpkin to mine...& topped with some chocolate chips, of course!

My fridge is now stocked [at least for a few days] of wholesome oatmeal awaiting me each morning :)

What's in a name?

2012-01-19T14:14:00.000-05:00

Jared & I had Lincoln's name way before he was ever conceived. We may have discussed other possible names when we found out we were having a sweet boy, but we always went back to "Lincoln."

However, it just occurred to me that I have never shared with you all how we chose his name!

When we tell people our son's name is Lincoln, more often than not they automatically assume we named him after President Abraham Lincoln. While I truly admire President Lincoln, & think he is a great role model for every generation, our Lincoln isn't named after him.

We did however get his name from this guy...

Don't recognize this scrumptious fella? It's Dominic Purcell.

Jared & I were ridiculously HUGE Prison Break fans. In case you've never heard of Prison Break, it was a television series on Fox for a few years. Dominic Purcell's character was "Lincoln."

One night while we were watching the show, I turned to Jared and said, "what do you think of the name Lincoln for a little boy?" He immediately replied that he loved it!

And so, when we found out we were expecting a wee sweet boy, it didn't take us long to agree that his name would be "Lincoln."

Now that we have our little Lincoln, I don't think any other name would have fit him better! It's a strong name, and my sweet boy is SO incredibly strong. Maybe my Lincoln will live up to the great President ;)

Wordless Wednesday: Little Drummer Boy

2012-01-17T18:48:00.001-05:00

Weekend Recap: Date Night!

2012-01-16T11:34:00.000-05:00

This past weekend we packed our bags, and took the 2 1/2 hour drive to my Mom's house for the weekend. Between all of our hectic schedules, and everyone traveling back and forth to Florida to visit my Dad, we haven't seen my Mom in about a month. In fact, we hadn't even had Christmas with her yet!

Lincoln was very excited to see his Grammy...& I was pretty happy to see my Momma!

We celebrated our "Christmas" on Friday night. Lincoln made out quite well, as usual...and we surprised my Mom with a Keurig!

Saturday my Mom and I went wedding dress shopping with my aunt. She just got engaged over the holidays and is planning a wedding in October....SO FUN!! Lincoln is going to be the ring bearer, which makes me beyond excited!! Anyways, we had a girls day while Lincoln spent some time with his Daddy and Uncle.

When we got back to my Mom's, Jared and I decided to go out just the two of us for a bit.....a date...yay! I honestly cannot recall the last time we've gone out without our sweet boy in tow. We had to be back by 8pm though, because we could not miss the Patriots game!!

So, where did we go you ask? Umm. We went to Toys R Us. Nope. I'm not kidding you. We are looking for a play kitchen for Lincoln, so we thought we'd go check them out. We're still undecided which one to go with, but we're leaning towards the Step2 brand. If you'd like to recommend your play kitchen, I'd be happy to hear all about it!

After we browsed through the toy store for quite some time, we decided to go grab some dinner. By dinner, I mean ice cream :)

We had a great time just the two of us. I wish we could go out more often, but right now we'll take what we can get and be thankful for that.

Hope you all enjoyed your weekend!

Oh Yeah, I Had Cancer. And, I'm Thankful

2012-01-12T20:50:00.000-05:00

Even I almost forget sometimes. But I think I'll always have that "cancer cloud" lurking over me. I suppose it is just something that comes with the territory.

If you're new to my blog, yes, just about three years ago I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer. To get acquainted or to reacquaint yourself with my story, here are some helpful links:

I will not be that girl...

I Have a Case of Bad Luck

Success

And the Results Are In

The Best Kind to Have

So now that you are all caught up with my cancer nightmare...HI!!!

Today I had my yearly appointment with my Endocrinologist. I always get freaked out with those visits. It's like I'm walking into my nightmare. All those memories come flashing back before my eyes.

What makes it even worse...my doctors office is in conjunction with the Cancer Center at the hospital. Fitting, right? You walk in there and see a lot of people. A lot of very very sick people. When the receptionist comes to bring you to your room, you walk by the area where they administer chemo therapy.

These people aren't the lucky ones like me. They don't have thyroid cancer. They have something much much worse. It makes you take a step back and take a look at your life. In all honesty, I feel thankful. Thankful that I had cancer? No, not a chance. But it makes me take a look at my life and be thankful for everything I have. My type of cancer has a 99% cure rate. My prognosis is beyond excellent. I'm thankful.

My appointment went well. I will go back next week at some point for an ultrasound of my thyroid, which is another standard thing I have yearly since my diagnosis. I've been known to grill the tech while they're checking out my thyroid that is no longer there. Thankfully they've always been kind enough to answer my questions and say, "there's nothing there, & that's how it should be."

I still cannot fathom that my surgery was almost three years ago. When I walked into my appointment today, I had my husband with me and my sweet boy. I am thankful.

Wordless Wednesday: Naptime Buddies

2012-01-11T09:06:00.002-05:00

Playroom Inspiration

2012-01-09T14:28:00.000-05:00

I think I've mentioned once or twice before that we built our own house. I really don't know what I was thinking, but I wish I thought of incorporating a playroom into our design plans. We seemed to have had everything else covered.

Open floor plan with kitchen, dining area, and living room - Check!

Four bedrooms - Check!

Two bathrooms, one being a master bath off the master bedroom - Check!

Oversized two car garage - Check!

Office/Playroom - ermmm...ohhhh, crap....

Yeah.

I know exactly where I'd like this room to be in our house. If we could just break down the wall in our kitchen and add an extra room there, it would be perfect. The door going outside to our backyard could be off that room rather than our kitchen. Sounds perfect. Unfortunately, it's a bit too late. At least for a few years.

For now, my entire house looks like a playroom. I suppose that's to be expected with a rambuncious two year old boy. I've been brainstorming ideas as to how we can contain his toys a bit more efficiently. We are thinking of temporarily turning what is now our office and fourth bedroom into an office/playroom. HOWEVER, once we have baby #2, we will need that room for a nursery. We have four bedrooms, however, I plan on always having a guest room. We have family and friends who live 2 plus hours away. When they come visit, they normally spend a weekend with us. I don't want to give that room up! Although, I do suppose I could always throw a bed in with the playroom/office when we have #2. That is definitely something to think about! And now I'm rambling. Moving forward...

I've turned to one of my favorite sites, Pinterest, for some playroom inspiration. I love these cubbies and all the bright colors that go along with it. I also love the little bench idea in between for a reading spot.

I think this sign is so perfect for the room. Possibly in a brighter color.

I LOVE these beanbag chairs. However, I have NO idea where they're from. I love the color, and they look so comfy! If anyone has seen these, PLEASE share where I can get them!!

In this photo I really like the table and chairs, or stools for that matter. I think they're from ikea.

And lastly, aren't these colors just so fun?! They just scream "PLAYROOM!!!" I love everything about this setup. Lots of storage, a cute table/chairs set, and look at the alphabet border along with walls!

So now that I have some inspiration, I should probably show the hubs, huh?! After all, he's my handyman. He built and designed our house. We have a few other projects in the works that need to be completed before tackling this one, but I think it's definitely a possibility!! :)

I know I'm biased and all...

2012-01-05T10:33:00.000-05:00

...but this picture of Lincoln makes me 100% positive that I made one of the most handsome little boys in the world. My sweet boy is going to be a little heartbreaker for sure. Wouldn't you agree...

He has a dump truck and a whisk...quite the combination :)

When I look at this photo, it makes me want to have a million little boys! I am one blessed Momma!

Happy New Year: Bring on 2012!!!

2012-01-04T12:38:00.002-05:00

Happy New Year! This year, I was so ready to welcome 2012 with open arms. It's no secret that 2011 was a tough year for my family. There were way too many tragedies. 2012 is a brand spankin' new year, and many good things WILL happen.

I'm normally not one to make resolutions because, well, we all know how those go. However, this year I'd like to make some goals for myself.

There are MANY doctors appointments I need to make. I'm ashamed to say this, but the last time I was at the OB was for my 6 week post partum checkup from Lincoln. To my defense, I did have 2 appointments scheduled, but I just so happened to also end up getting my wonderful period for both of those appointments. I know you can still go during that time and all, but I just can't do it! I called my OB office yesterday and have an appointment scheduled for the end of February. Now let's just hope AF doesn't decide to show up then!

I also need to find a new primary care doctor. I haven't found one since moving to Connecticut when we got married 4 1/2 years ago. This is [obviously] way overdue. So alas, another appointment.

Next up, I need to find an orthopedist. Particularly one that at least has some knowledge in Osteogenesis Imperfecta. I haven't seen one in 6 years. My old one is out of Boston, and he's a pediatric orthopedist. I really need to find someone a bit more local. This is really SO important, and I'm mad at myself for putting this off for so long.

You know how some people dread the dentist? Yeah. That's me. I need to make an appointment for myself, and for Lincoln for that matter. Heck, Jared needs an appointment too...maybe we'll make a family day of it!

I need to get in shape! We all say this every New Year, and I know it sounds so cliche. I'm not looking to lose weight at all. I'm looking to tone up some and get my body physically stronger. I cannot tell you the last time I exercised. It's really important that I maintain some sort of fitness regimen to maintain my bone density. I need to be a strong Momma for Lincoln. I need to get my body ready to have another baby someday. I need to be strong for myself.

And lastly, Lincoln needs to be around kids more often. I'm thinking of checking out Little Gym and Kindermusik to see if he'd enjoy something like that. I also want to check out the story times at nearby libraries. Winter is upon us, and we need to figure out ways to get out of the house more often. I would like him to go to preschool next year for two days a week, but I think enrolling him in one of these programs would be great for now.

I think that's it. That seems like enough anyways! What are your New Years goals?

Sponsor Love!

2012-01-02T09:00:00.001-05:00

I am very excited that my blog is now accepting sponsors! This month I have a lovely blog to feature, Building Our Story. Here's a little bit about this blog, be sure to check it out!!

My name is Censie (said like Kenzie). I am the author of Building Our Story, this blog started as a journal for myself back in September 2009. Pretty soon it turned into a Trying to Conceive blog, then a pregnancy blog and then a parenting blog – and soon we hope a Trying to Conceive #2 blog! This website has become a great part of my life. I love updating it and using it to track all of our family’s big events and milestones.

Are you interested in sponsoring The Mommy Diaries? Click here to request more info!

Our Christmas Recap

2011-12-29T13:19:00.001-05:00

Oh hi! Remember me?! Like most of you, it's been pretty darn crazy in our household this past week! For starters, we had Jared's brother and his two kids visiting from Tennessee. We haven't seen them since last Christmas, so we were very excited. The kids have gotten SO big. Our nephew Mason is now 8, and our niece Mallery is 6. Lincoln LOVED his big cousins!

Christmas Eve we always go to a HUGE party with Jared's family. His family is ridiculously huge. His father is one of nine kids...which means there are tons of cousins, kids, and babies at this party! It's really fun, and I look forward to it every year. It also gives me a reason to dress up my sweet boy. And honestly, he stole the show! Here is my dapper dude very excited about the Christmas Tree.

Such a little man.

My Mom spent Christmas in Florida with my Dad this year. We missed them both very much, but we were very happy that my brother came to spend a couple of nights with us. Lincoln was especially happy to have his Uncle.

Lincoln loved opening his presents. He totally had the hang of it and thought ALL the presents were from him :)

Santa came and brought Lincoln a train table!!! He was very impressed, as were his two big cousins.

The day after Christmas, Jared and I took Lincoln and his cousins to Chucky Cheese. Lincoln had a blast there, and he doesn't even need tokens to have a good time. He especially enjoyed driving this car, which happened to be a police car...figures!

Then Daddy introduced him to this coin machine. Lincoln got the hang of it rather quickly, loading the machine up with tokens...

...he did quite well, actually! He won all these tickets by himself!!

With his two big cousins around, Lincoln played hard every day. One night he passed out on his chair, with his rain boots on, of course!

We had a very merry Christmas! It was a perfect holiday. The only thing that would have made it better would have been to have my parents with us. I hope your holiday was merry & bright!!!

It's the Most Wonderful Time of the Year!

2011-12-23T11:00:00.002-05:00

Christmastime was always magical for me growing up. There were many holiday traditions that we had, and many of those I want to continue on with Lincoln.

Trimming the tree, as a family. My mom, dad, brother, and myself would decorate our tree together. We always had cheesy Christmas music playing, specifically The Chipmunks. It was always a happy time. A great family day. A way to spend time together, as a family.

Baking homemade Christmas cookies. I'm talking chocolate chip cookies from scratch. Sugar cookies where you roll out the dough, press with cookie cutters, and decorate with frosting and sprinkles!!

Watching Christmas movies. Again, together as a family.

Driving around to look at the Christmas lights. I cannot tell you how many times my Dad would drive us around different neighborhoods so my brother and I could "oohhhh and ahhh" over the twinkling lights.

Leaving cookies & milk out for Santa...& a carrot for Rudolph of course! For some reason, the other reindeer got neglected. It was all about Rudolph. Maybe with Lincoln I'll incorporate 8 carrots so the others don't get jipped :)

Singing Christmas carols in the car. My mom and Dad both would sing along with my brother and I particularly on Christmas Eve driving home from my Grandparents house.

Looking for Rudolph's nose in the sky! I remember my brother and I having our faces glued to the car windows driving home on Christmas Eve. If we saw a red light in the sky, surely that was Rudolph's nose!

Believing in the magic! Instilling the true meaning of Christmas with Lincoln. Showing him how magical this time of the year is, and believing in the magic with him!

What are some of your favorite holiday traditions?

The Next Michelangelo?

2011-12-22T11:00:00.000-05:00

Lincoln is a busy boy. He's a very active, typical two year old. Getting him to actually sit still in one place for any given amount of time is usually a big fat fail. There's just SO much stuff to do and see! Why would he want to sit still and concentrate on one little thing?!

That was until the other day. I broke out the crayons, and rather than a coloring book, I finally gave him his drawing pad.

My sweet boy went to town!!

And based on this drawing, I'd say he likes the color purple.

His first of many masterpieces to shine on our refrigerator. I'm a proud Momma.'

Baby Talk

2011-12-21T11:00:00.001-05:00

Just a cute little video of Lincoln saying "paci." It kind of sounds like he's saying "please." But, he's not. It's his little version of paci... enjoy :)

Updates & Such

2011-12-20T15:00:00.000-05:00

Christmas is in FIVE days...what?!

Yeah. That.

It's a crazy, busy, hectic time of the year. A joyous, amazing, magical time of the year to spend with our loved ones.

And because of that....my blog will probably be lacking its normal content for a week or so. I do have a few scheduled posts, but nothing too in depth.

I am looking forward to celebrating Christmas with our little family. My niece and nephew from Tennessee fly in tomorrow along with my brother in law. We haven't seen them in a year. I'm very excited for Lincoln to see his big cousins.

My mom is going to Florida for Christmas to celebrate with my Dad. My brother will be coming to our house.

I think I forgot to mention how weird it was being in the 80 degree Florida weather last week seeing Christmas decorations. Being from New England, I'm used to the cold, and a white Christmas. It was very different, and maybe even made me appreciate the brisk winter air for a bit!

Also, Lincoln and I are scheduled to go visit my Dad again at the end of January. If anyone is interested in guest blogging, please email me at Kaymee81@gmail.com.

Annnnd, I also wanted to throw out there that we are accepting sponsors now. For more information on that, you can email me at the link above :)

And with that, I leave you with a silly photo of Lincoln. This was in Florida. He put his hat on all by himself...

We are Back!!!

2011-12-19T12:35:00.000-05:00

...again.

I feel like I've wrote this post before, considering this was our third time coming back home from Florida in four months. And we'll be going again soon. Next month, in fact! We couldn't resist the sale Southwest was having. $58 flights each way. Such a great deal!

We were really busy our entire stay there. Big Surprise, I know.

We arrived Wednesday night and stayed until Sunday morning. During our stay we went to a zoo and back to Sea World again! We have season passes to Sea World until the end of this month, so we figured we'd take advantage of that. Lincoln totally remembered Sea World. He was all excited to see Shamu again!

However, as much as he likes the real Shamu, he was a little unsure about the the the character. Lincoln and I had our picture taken with my cousin, and he was a little indifferent about the situation.

Here are two photos of our trip. One of us with Shamu. And the other just of me and my sweet boy :)

We are all about the handprints this year!

2011-12-15T11:00:00.000-05:00

The other day I posted about the salt dough handprints we made. Well, the other night we whipped up some more handprint gifts! My father LOVES the Patriots. I found this awesome Patriots football on amazon that is white....perfect for little handprints showing up!

We did this project while Daddy was home. First he painted Lincoln's hand blue....which he thought was way awesome by the way :)

Then we placed his hands one at a time on the football. The left hand definitely came out better than the right, but my Dad will love it for sure. I also wrote Lincoln's name and 12/2011 on the football.

While we had Lincoln's hands blue and already painted. We decided to do his baseball handprint gift that we're giving to my brother. My brother is baseball OBSESSED! You should see the stuff he has already bought for Lincoln. This one was a little harder, because Lincoln had to grasp the ball. We chose to do it with his left hand, because my brother always says Lincoln is going to be a left handed pitcher :)

Another fun and easy peasy handmade gift for the holidays...or any occasion, really!

[almost] Wordless Wednesday

2011-12-14T11:00:00.001-05:00

Just another cutie picture of my sweet boy for your day!

On another note, Lincoln and I head to Florida tonight for the next four days. While I don't have any guest bloggers lined up this time, I do have a scheduled post from myself! Look at me all on top of things :::pats self on back:::

OH, and does my kid not look like he's perfecting his modeling pose?!

Salt Dough Handprints.

2011-12-13T14:40:00.000-05:00

These seem to be all the rage this year, thanks to Pinterest. With my family especially, we are downscaling Christmas a bit this year...with the exception of Lincoln, of course. We are all flying to and from Florida to visit my Dad. Any extra money is really going towards flights right now.

I could not skip out entirely though. My brother and I are getting my Mom a Keurig because she totally deserves that luxury. She's going through so much right now, being home and working, while her husband is 1500 miles away. She will probably yell at us for getting it for her, but we really don't care. She deserves a little something special just for her. Something that will make her day a little brighter.

On the other hand. Having a toddler is ridiculously fun [like you didn't already know that]. Lincoln is at the age where we can do some fun homemade gifts!!! I for one think a homemade gift is more sentimental than something store bought. And when it comes from a sweet little boy...well, that just makes it all the more special!

Lincoln & I whipped up some salt dough handprints last week. Here's what I used:

2 cups of flour

1 cup of salt

1 cup of water

You have to knead the dough for awhile to get the right consistency, which is equivalent to play-doh. Next I rolled the dough into four [just about] equal circles. Now came the fun part. Lincoln pressed his hand onto the dough. He was awesome at this. The look of amazement when I pulled his hand up was priceless. I wish someone else was there to get a picture of his face. Pure astonishment!

We put them into the oven at 200 degrees for 2 hours. I think they could have baked maybe 30 minutes longer, so I'll have to remember that for the future. Here's what they looked like when they came out...

They were not entirely hardened, so I left them to hang out for 5 days. Last night we painted the dough around the handprint. I wanted to leave the actual handprint as is so you could really see the impression of his hand. I'm really happy with the results...

And on the back I signed Lincoln's name and 12/2011.

Originally these were meant to be ornaments, but they're pretty big, and REALLY heavy. I'm thinking we'll display them with a small easel stand instead.

I am keeping one for ourselves, one is going to my Mom, one to my in laws, and the other we're bring to Florida with us tomorrow to give to my Dad.

This project was way fun. In fact, I plan on doing it again next week when my niece and nephew come to visit from Tennessee. That way my in laws can receive one from all of their grandchildren. Although my in laws drive me nuts, I try my hardest to be a ~~good~~ decent daughter in law.

If you have little ones, you should definitely try this out! You'll have just as much fun, if not MORE fun than them :)

Weekend Recap

2011-12-12T11:21:00.000-05:00

It was a busy, fun-filled weekend in our household! Lincoln and I planned a last minute trip to go visit my Dad in Florida this Wednesday, so I'm trying to get all our Christmas decorating and wrapping done before we leave. I feel like I have SO much to do beforehand. We're only going for four days, but when we come back my brother in law, niece, and nephew from Tennessee are flying in just a couple days later! My Christmas cards still have not arrived in the mail. If they don't hurry up, I might end up having to address them all while I'm in Florida! Not to mention if they don't arrive at all before I leave. Then they won't go out until NEXT Tuesday's mail at the earliest. Ugh.

Anyways, we did some decorating this weekend. I almost forgot how cute Lincoln's stocking is. We ordered it from Pottery Barn Kids last year. We don't have a fireplace, but we have this little "mantle" looking thing on our entertainment stand. Jared thought the stockings would look cute hung from there, and I'd have to agree!

I need to find a cute stocking for our Evy pup. Right now our cat Oliver has two! Speaking of Evy, her and Lincoln have been playing so nicely lately. I really think they are going to be best buds. I just love how protective she is of him already. He's her boy.

Sunday Jared had to work, so Lincoln and I had a pajama day. I wrapped presents and sipped on pumpkin spice coffee while he played with his new Little People airplane and spaceship.

Of course we also watched some football. GOOOO PATS!!!

And Lincoln took a little nap on the couch :)

We had a great weekend. Stayed in the house. But got a lot accomplished, and soaked in some family time.

Now, I need to pack for our little 4 day vacation to see my Dad!

Discipline

2011-12-08T15:14:00.000-05:00

It's a topic with much controversy. But as parents, it's something we have to deal with. How will we discipline our children?

I am a firm believer in Attachment Parenting. This is a more of a positive discipline approach. Rather than reacting to the behavior in a negative way, you need to first discover what needs are leading to the behavior. Is your child bored? Angry? Sad? Hungry? Jealous? There are a million different reasons for a child to perform certain behaviors.

I never realized this was the form of parenting I believed in until I actually googled and read up on it. But it seriously fits my parenting style perfectly.

I am a firm believer in no spanking. There will under no circumstances be any hitting. To me, spanking shows a child that violence is okay. It provokes fear into their mind. As a parent, do you really want your child to fear you?

This is where I have [yet another] problem when my in laws come into the picture. My in laws always comment on how children should be "well disciplined." Their form of discipline is equivalent to a lot of yelling, negative tone, spankings, and giving their hands a "little swat" when they touch something they're not supposed to.

This scares the hell out of me.

Lincoln has always adored my father in law. In fact, up until recently he would even watch Lincoln for me if I had a doctors appointment. A few weeks ago something changed. Lincoln has not been the same with my father in law since. While I don't believe he actually hit him, I think he was probably a little too stern with him. Needless to say, he won't be babysitting Lincoln anytime soon.

Call me an overprotective parent if you'd like. I don't care. Lincoln is my number one priority. I have to do what I feel is best for him. I am his Momma. No one else. And people need to respect that.

What parenting styles work for you? I realize there are all sorts of parenting styles, and what might work for one person doesn't necessarily work for another. However YOU are your child's only advocate when they are this little. Whatever you decide works best for your family is something that should be respected by everyone else involved in your child's life.

Discipline is a tricky matter. It's hard! But, finding a method that works for your family is so important. Everyone needs to be on the same page regarding YOUR decisions on how to discipline your child. And if they don't like it? Too damn bad.

Wordless Wednesday

2011-12-07T12:14:00.001-05:00

I love when he sleeps with his little butt in the air :)

Lincoln's 2nd Birthday Bash!

2011-12-06T12:16:00.000-05:00

We celebrated Lincoln's 2nd birthday this past weekend. We downscaled the invite list a bit compared to last year where we had two parties! This party was at our house, which was really nice. I liked being able to do all the personal creative little touches that made it extra special.

My friend made Lincoln's ridiculously awesome cake [& cupcakes]. I love love LOVE how they turned out!

I ordered this banner from one of my e-Mommy Friends over at Pippy's Perspective. Isn't it gorgeous?! We got MANY compliments on this banner.

Jenny from The Adventures of H3 was kind enough to send me the remaining Mickey ears from her son Henry's Mickey birthday bash. Thanks again Jenny, they were a big hit!

I made food labels to coordinate with the theme...

OH, & next to the "hot diggity dogs," are the favor bags I made....thank you Pinterest!

We had 6 little kids here, including Lincoln. It was super fun! We have a huge garage that we opened up with a lot of Lincoln's outdoor toys so the kids could all run around & play.

Lincoln was obsessed with the balloons. We eventually had to take them away from him because he was probably walking around with 15 balloons inside of our house, haha.

When it came time to sing "Happy Birthday," Lincoln was pretty excited that all these people were singing for him!

Opening presents was a blast! Lincoln totally understands the entire concept now. Christmas is going to be insane!!!

When all of his friends left, Lincoln went to sit in his chair, grabbed his blankie, & fell fast asleep. Notice he's holding a balloon...

We had a great party. And most importantly, Lincoln had a great time :)

Our Christmas Card!

2011-12-05T10:59:00.002-05:00

Finally ordered it this morning! What do you think?

Merry Little Moments Christmas Card

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We had a great weekend celebrating Lincoln's 2nd birthday. I promise many, many birthday photos will be coming your way soon :)

Imagination at it's best!

2011-12-02T10:01:00.000-05:00

Lincoln is at a super fun age. His birthday party is tomorrow. Everyone keeps asking me what he likes, but the truth is, he's in to SO many different things right now. He likes just about anything!!

He is really starting to enjoy imaginative play. I could honestly watch him all day long while he is playing. I would love to know what he's thinking.

The other night he was playing with his little Mickey figures he got from Disney. Suddenly he picked up this little shovel that has wheels, and it became their car! He placed Mickey & Goofy in the front seat, and put Pluto in the back! I was in awe! & I snapped a picture :)

Being a Mommy is the greatest! Happy weekend everyone! There will be lots of birthday party pictures next week :)

Lincoln's First Trip to the ER

2011-12-01T14:27:00.000-05:00

This event actually took place 3 days before Lincoln's 2nd birthday. However, I wanted all of my posts to be all related to my sweet boy's second year of life for the week. So, here we go...

It was a typical Sunday night. Jared, Lincoln, & myself were shopping at our favorite store, Target. Lincoln didn't want anything to do with being in the shopping carriage, so he was alternating between riding on my lap, or helping Daddy push the cart.

I had to use the restroom, so I left my boys in the produce area. When I came back, I spotted Jared holding Lincoln across the store. It was very clear that Lincoln was upset. I basically flew down there as fast as I could.

Of course when Lincoln saw me, he wanted me immediately. Jared handed him to me and I immediately noticed that his left arm was completely limp. I asked Jared what happened. I'm not sure how familiar you all are with the shopping carts at Target, but some of them have this little "two seater," where two children can ride along. Apparently Lincoln was helping to push the carriage and decided to step inside the cart. When he stepped out, his arm somehow got wrapped around the strap, and he fell. Jared said he stood up, grabbed his left forearm, and screamed.

I thought for sure, Lincoln broke his arm. One of my worst fears. Having OI I knew what my little baby was feeling. Only thing was, he didn't understand. I was in my wheelchair, so I had him sitting on my lap. I supported his left arm with my left arm, sort of like a sling. If nothing was supporting his little arm, I knew he'd be in more pain. Jared and I left Target immediately.

I suggested we go to the Children's Hospital which is about 40 minutes from where we were. Lincoln fell asleep as soon as we got him into his carseat, so I knew he wouldn't mind the drive. Jared was surprised he fell asleep. I was not. Any time I have ever broke a bone, I have gotten extremely tired. My poor baby.

While we drove to the hospital, a million things flashed through my mind. It brought me back to my own childhood, only this time, I was my Mom. How did she ever do this? Watch her baby in so much pain? Everything I was doing to comfort Lincoln, I remember my Mom doing for me. It was very surreal for me. I wiped the tears from my eyes and forced myself to be strong. I needed to be strong for my son.

When we arrived to the hospital, they took us right away. The only thing they wanted to do which I absolutely did not allow, was place Lincoln on an itty bitty baby scale to get his weight. I knew his weight, he was just at the pediatrician for our Lyme disease scare the week before. I knew this would cause him great pain. Unnecessary pain.

We saw a doctor fairly quickly. He examined Lincoln and said he was hoping it was something called nursemaid's elbow. This is a very common injury in young children. It's a dislocation of a bone in the elbow called the radius. If this was the case, it was an easy fix. However, just to be sure, he still wanted to send Lincoln for x-rays.

Jared and I were able to both accompany Lincoln in x-ray. I was right next to Lincoln the entire time, helping the tech hold his little arm in the positions needed to get the shots. There was one x-ray where she needed to move his arm in a certain position. When she did this, she said "OH, I felt a pop!" Lincoln immediately started to move his arm. She went out to ask the doctor if we could stop the x-rays and observe him for a bit.

When we got back to the room they brought Lincoln some toys. He happily played away. The x-rays showed no signs of a fracture or broken bone. It ended up just being the dislocation!

Someone had to of been watching over my sweet boy that night. I cannot even tell you how relieved I felt when I saw his little arm move. This was definitely the hardest thing I have ever had to go through as a parent.

When we got back home, Lincoln gave us what we call a "family hug." All three of us hug at the same time. It was like he was thanking us for making him all better :)

This picture was taken just a few minutes after we got home. You would never even know he was injured!

I am thankful. Very very thankful.

[almost] Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-30T11:00:00.000-05:00

Don't let this picture fool you! Lincoln was actually laughing hysterically, not crying. He is starting to really enjoy playing with Evy, and she just loves it!

Lincoln's 2 Year Stats

2011-11-29T11:42:00.000-05:00

Hard to believe I'm the Momma of a two year old!

We had Lincoln's 2 year checkup yesterday. Unfortunately, Lincoln is fully aware what doctors offices are all about. He is no longer happy to be there. Getting him on the scale was even a nightmare.

At two years old, Lincoln weighs 32 lbs, 90th percentile, and he's 37 1/2 inches tall, OFF THE CHARTS!!! He's going to tower over his Momma for sure!!

Overall, we had a great appointment. There were no shots, minus the finger prick...which sucks royally.

My only concern was Lincoln's speech. I asked what he should have for words at this point in time. His pedi informed me that Lincoln should be saying between 15-20 words, and only 3 of those words would anyone understand. The rest are normally only understood by the parents. Wow. I honestly thought he was a little behind in this department, and if that was the case I wanted to get him the help he needs. However, Lincoln has 38 words. Yes, we made a list, because the paranoid Momma that I am was freaking a bit. So, it was nice to hear that Lincoln is doing just fine!

We don't go back now until he's 3 years old!!!

Canvas4Life [Review & Giveaway]

2011-11-28T09:00:00.000-05:00

I was recently contacted by Canvas4Life, asking if I'd like the opportunity to review one of their canvas prints. Obviously I jumped at the opportunity! I am a picture fanatic, as if you can't tell from the loads of photos I display on my blog. My house is decorated with photos. Photos of our family. I'm not one to display "pretty scenic" pictures around the house. I like looking at the people we love most. Of course Lincoln is the prime little model displayed on our walls :)

I was able to choose which size canvas I'd like, up to a 16 x 20. So, you know that's the size I went with! Next up was choosing a picture. This was SO hard!!! I take a lot of photos. I knew I wanted the canvas to be a picture of Lincoln, but deciding WHICH picture was the problem. I finally found the one. It's a photo I took of him last May at the beach. Here's how it came out...

Isn't it gorgeous? We haven't hung it up yet. We need to find the absolute perfect spot. It might take some rearranging of some other photos we have displayed, but I just want it to look amazing!

The quality is even better than I could have imagined. Not to mention it arrived at my doorstep only 4 days after I ordered it! How's that for fast service?! Overall, I am very satisfied with my canvas. I foresee ordering from Canvas4Life in the near future!!

Canvas4Life has kindly offered my readers 10% off any canvas with promotional code: mommydiaries

OR...you can be one of my lucky TWO readers to win a $10 gift card to Canvas4Life!!! This is a rafflecopter giveaway. To enter, you will need to click "read more" to open the widget...then just follow the directions, easy peasy :)

Happy Thanksgiving!

2011-11-24T09:38:00.001-05:00

I've had a bit of a rough year, but there are still things I'm so thankful for.

My family. I have such a great, supportive family. I feel very fortunate.

My friends. I'm not one of those people who has a ton of friends. However, those friends I do have are true. They're always there.

My husbands job. In today's economy, I feel very lucky Jared has a stable job. He also works his butt off so I can stay home with my sweet boy.

Which in turn I am thankful I can be a stay at home mom. My mom stayed home with my brother and me when we were kids, & I always hoped I could do that with my own children.

My husband. I'm not going to say we have a perfect marriage. Marriage is hard work. But, we are a great team. We share the same values. And above all, we love each other unconditionally.

Lincoln. My sweet son. I cannot say enough about how thankful I am for him. I must have done something right to be blessed with such an amazing little boy.

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope everyone has a great day!!

Two Years Old

2011-11-23T08:43:00.001-05:00

My sweet boy Lincoln,

Today at 8:43 AM, you are 2 years old.

These past two years have been the happiest of my life. The joy and love you have brought to my life, is indescribable. You have brought so much happiness to so many people. It's amazing how such a little person can make a huge impact on your life. You are everything to me.

Being your Mommy is truly the greatest thing I have ever known. My love for you could move mountains. I would do anything and everything for you. My wish for you is to be happy. Always. The sound of your infectious laughter is music to my ears. Nothing gives me greater joy, than seeing you happy.

The moment I held you in my arms for the first time, something inside of me changed. Right then and there, I became your Mommy. You became my number one. My everything. My whole world.

While I still cannot believe how fast these two years have gone by, I cannot imagine my life without you. You complete me.

I look at how much you've grown in the past year, and it amazes me. You are becoming a little boy! A bright, smart, caring, affectionate, sweet little boy. My little boy. You make me proud to be your Momma.

I love you forever, to the moon and back,

Momma

Lincoln's 2nd Year [video]

2011-11-22T09:00:00.000-05:00

Here's just a cute little video I put together to celebrate Lincoln's 2nd year of life!

I hope you enjoy it :)

Birthday Sneak Peak

2011-11-21T09:00:00.000-05:00

Umm, my sweet boy is turning two years old on Wednesday. :::breathes into paper bag:::

I'm not exactly sure how the heck that is even possible! BUT, there has been party planning going on in our household! Lincoln's theme this year is....

Adorable invite, ya think? Thanks to Life is Sweet for designing these adorable Mickey invites for Lincoln's 2nd birthday! Life is Sweet also made Lincoln's invites last year :)

You know Lincoln needs to have a birthday shirt for his big day....

Stinkin' cute, right?! Lincoln's shirt was made by the very talented Created with Whimsy. It is absolutely perfect! I cannot wait to see him wearing it :)

So, yes. We are in full party planning mode. Although his actual birthday is November 23rd, we are not having his party until December 3rd. That's what happens when your husband is a cop and works crazy hours!

I am looking forward to celebrating Lincoln's second year with our family and friends :)

Happy National Adoption Day!!

2011-11-19T11:50:00.000-05:00

Today, November 19th, is National Adoption Day. I have 7 cousins who were adopted through foster care. My aunt could not have any children of her own, so she fostered 7 children....all of which she ended up adopting!

I have a very small family, so I think it's so awesome what she did. She made our family grow HUGE!

I think adoption is very important. There are SO many children who desperately need loving homes. I think of adopting myself some day when Jared and I are done having babies.

So today, I'm celebrating my 7 cousins. I'm thanking all of those wonderful people in the world involved in foster care, & the families who choose to adopt. You are giving these children a better, loved life.

To learn more about National Adoption Day, click here.

I just love her ears!

2011-11-18T15:22:00.001-05:00

Happy weekend from Evy, who celebrated turning 6 months old this week :)

Thankful Thursday

2011-11-17T15:32:00.000-05:00

I haven't done one of these posts in a very long time. Honestly, it's been hard for me to even consider writing one of these posts. Let's face it, my life has been a bit of a rollercoaster lately. And, that's putting it mildly.

However, I am happy to report that Lincoln does NOT have Lyme disease!!!! And for that, I am SO very thankful!!!

It just so happened that he got himself a virus right when it could have been Lyme....just enough to make his Momma worry! & the limp....well, there's probably 100 explanations for that. He's a wild & crazy toddler, he falls down all the time. Maybe he had an internal bruise or something. He's not limping any longer.

So today I'm thankful that my sweet boy is 100% healthy. That's something worth celebrating!

What are you thankful for today?

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-16T10:25:00.001-05:00

Someone's feeling better :)

A Mother's Love is Infinite

2011-11-15T09:00:00.004-05:00

No one can love a child like their mother. I've heard this saying before, but never really understood it until becoming a mom myself. I'm not saying my love for Lincoln is greater than anyone else's...okay, maybe I am a bit. I think it's just that initial mother/child bond that makes our love all the more special.

It's that little smile he gives JUST me.

It's that little hand that grasps mine, and leads me to whatever it is he wants. He knows he can count on and depend on me to help him with anything. I'm his voice. And although he is nearly two years old, he knows that.

It's the way he runs and greets me even if it's only been five minutes since he's seen me last. The loving smile. That bear hug he gives to me when he tightly wraps his arms around my neck and rests his cheek alongside mine.

It's understanding exactly what he's saying to me, even if it is completely in baby talk. Having those conversations with him, shows him I understand.

It's when he plops himself on my lap [like he literally JUST did], lays down and looks up at me with those big brown eyes of his. His eyes show such expression. They smile even. He grabs my hand, and places it on his cheek. I melt. Every. Single. Time.

It's watching him place his head on my shoulder, and drift off into a peaceful slumber. Watching his little eyelids flutter, and seeing a smile on his face, while he nuzzles into me.
I'm his Momma. And, he knows it.

No one else will ever know the strength of my love for you. After all, you're the only one who knows what my heart sounds like from the inside.

Peter Rabbit Organics [Review & Giveaway]

2011-11-14T09:00:00.000-05:00

The moment my sweet baby boy was placed in my arms for the first time, I knew would do everything in my power to give him the best possible life. I would do anything for this itty bitty miracle.

When it came time for Lincoln to move on to solids, I did something I never thought I would ever do. I made his food. I got out my trusty Kitchenaid PINK blender, & pureed fruits & veggies. This method was not only wayyy less expensive, but it was giving Lincoln the very best possible nutrition, I could give to him.

Now that Lincoln is a toddler. Feeding him nutritious meals isn't as easy. He will happily gobble down most fruits, with a few exceptions, but vegetables....get out of town!! It can become very frustrating as a parent, when you are trying to do the best for your child, but seem to be failing when it comes to what they put in their belly's.

Peter Rabbit Organics offers these scrumptious fruit and vegetable pouches that provide wholesome nutrients and are 100% organic!

I wish I discovered these pouches when Lincoln was a baby, because although I was making his food, these would have been great and particularly convenient to throw in the diaper bag.

Don't think these pouches are just for babies. My toddler LOVES these pouches! He will happily choose one of these for his snack over anything else in his cabinet [yes, Lincoln has his very own cabinet with his food]. It makes me feel better knowing he's getting something nutritious into his growing little body.

Peter Rabbit Organics has generously offered one of my lucky readers the opportunity to win one dozen pouches of their own! This is a rafflecopter giveaway. You will need to click "read more" to open the widget. Just follow the directions & good luck!!

A Case of the Sickies

2011-11-12T15:18:00.000-05:00

I have been so unbelievably lucky with Lincoln's health. He has really never been sick, with the exception of a few minor colds.

Two weeks ago, I found a tick behind Lincoln's left ear. It had bitten him, and was the ugly deer tick that carries Lyme disease. Jared pulled the tick out of Lincoln, and we put it in a bottle in case the pedi wanted it for testing. I'm not going to lie. I freaked out. Jared was calm, but this Momma was freaking out!!!

I called Lincoln's pediatrician the next morning. They asked me a series of questions, and told me we basically had to wait. I was told Lyme disease won't show up in blood work until 14 days after the tick bite.

Last Friday, one week after the bite, Lincoln woke up with a 103.2 fever. Again, I panicked. My sweet boy has never had a fever this high. I called the pedi. Again I was told it was best to not bring him in for blood work, because it was still too early, and there was really no point in putting him through that. The pedi told me it most likely wasn't Lyme disease, and just a virus.

We were at my Mom's house for the weekend, so Lincoln lived it up and got spoiled more than he normally does. He even enjoyed breakfast in bed...which, he LOVED!!!

Lincoln ended up being better by Sunday morning. He lost his fever. Things were looking great!

Wednesday morning, he awoke with another fever. It was 101.5. I called the pedi, yet again. This time they asked me to bring him in. Not only did my sweet little Lincoln have a fever, he also was limping, another sign of Lyme disease. Yes. You guessed it. I was panicking. Again.

We had to bring him to a different office location than we normally go to because ours was booked. We were there two freaking hours. One of those hours we were just waiting to be seen. It was awful. The pedi evaluated Lincoln to rule out an ear infection, or anything else. He watched him walk, and agreed he was limping. He sent us for the dreaded blood work.

To say the blood work was awful, would be an understatement. Jared had to physically restrain my screaming, terrified, little baby. When we finally came home, Lincoln fell fast asleep on his Momma.

The pedi called me back later that evening and said that everything they tested hi m for came back normal, however the Lyme results won't be in until early next week. In the meantime, we just keep doing what we've been doing.

Lincoln is doing much better today. His temp is only 99.5, but he's still not 100% himself. Being a Mommy is pretty darn scary! I just want to know what's going on with my baby :(

Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-09T08:50:00.001-05:00

Family Photos

2011-11-08T09:30:00.000-05:00

With the Holidays approaching, & Lincoln's 2nd birthday in just a few weeks, we decided it was time to get some family photos. We haven't done any since Lincoln's one year pictures, so I thought it was well over due.

Unfortunately, my sweet boy woke up in the middle of the night with a fever. Lincoln NEVER gets fevers. Like ever. I've been very lucky in that department, so needless to say I was a little freaked out. When he woke up in the morning, he was acting like himself, & he only had a small temp, so we decided to attempt the photos.

Well, we only got four decent shots. Yeah. I was pretty disappointed. Especially, because we have used this photographer since Lincoln was a wee little babe, and she has always been able to capture so many photos of him. He wasn't miserable in the least. He just didn't want to sit still. I know that's normal because he is a very active toddler and all, but I was still a bit disappointed.

The shots we did get did come out good.

This was seriously the one and only one of him by himself. It was a struggle to get him to sit with Jared and me, but getting him alone was next to impossible.

And here's my favorite. I think it captures how the shoot exactly went. A squirmy, silly little boy.

I think next time it might be best to have a photographer come to our house. Lincoln will probably feel more comfortable, and hopefully we'll have more success.

It was an adventure, to say the least! At least I now have some photos to make our Christmas cards...which, I am probably way too excited about! OH, & I have a 2nd birthday to plan....I should probably get on that, eh?

Living in the Dark

2011-11-07T09:16:00.001-05:00

It's funny, the little things we take for granted every day. We were without power for six whole days. Crazy, huh?!

Yes. This was the front page of our newspaper, three days after we had already been living in "the dark ages."

If you are from New England, you are used to snow. HOWEVER, you really aren't accustomed to 16 inches of snow in OCTOBER! That's just crazy talk.

We lost power on Saturday, October 29th at 4pm. It didn't get restored until Friday, November 4th in the evening. Insane? I think so.

So, what happened? We got a lot of snow [duh, obviously]. At one point, we accumulated 8 inches of snow in just one hours time. Not to mention, there are still leaves on the trees. All of that extra weight caused branches and limbs to snap. Telephone wires were eliminated. It was seriously a freaking mess!

We spent Sunday through Wednesday at Jared's parents house. They have the teeniest tiniest generator on the face of the planet, but at least they were able to generate heat through their pellet stove. I was able to charge my laptop to play movies for Lincoln and charge my cell phone. That's just about it.

Wednesday night we headed to my parents house in Rhode Island. It was amazing to turn on a light switch. It was even more amazing to SHOWER!!! We had NO water, which meant, NO showers!

Jared stayed until Saturday morning when he had to travel back to work. Lincoln and I decided to stay a few more days. We seriously take SO much for granted!

A generator is now on the top of the lengthy of things we need to purchase. We plan on getting one that can run our entire house. It will be a hefty penny, but so worth it.

So, yes. This would be why I was completely MIA last week. It was a mess, & something I would not wish upon anyone. I hope any of my other readers weren't affected by the storm like we were! And if you were, please tell me your story. I have empathy for you!!

I really hope this isn't a sneak peak of our upcoming winter....

Erin Condren [Review & Giveaway]

2011-11-05T19:24:00.000-04:00

I recently had the opportunity to work with a really innovative company, Erin Condren. Have you heard of Erin Condren? Because, I had not until a few months ago when a few of my Mommy friends were raving about their products. Erin Condren carries a very large assortment of unique, customized products, such as stationary, invitations, address labels, and SO much more!

They recently came out with these super cute iPhone cases. And, I'm thinking I just might need one [or two]!

I could be wrong, but I think Erin Condren is mostly known for their Life Planners. These are seriously awesome planners. I have never seen anything even close to them. They are personalized to your choosing. Check this one out with your very own photos on the cover!

I was very lucky to be able to review an address book from Erin Condren. Can I please just say that this is my most favorite address book I have ever owned?!?!

I am in LOVE with the print. And, I just love how it says "the allen family" at the bottom. The pages are thicker than ordinary paper, & provide much durability. My husband was even impressed! The quality goes beyond measure!!

Erin Condren has generously offered one of my readers a $25 gift card to their store!

This is a rafflecopter giveaway, you need to click "read more" to open the widget. Just follow the directions :)

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Wordless Wednesday

2011-11-02T10:58:00.001-04:00

Where's Lincoln?

First Haircut

2011-10-28T11:56:00.000-04:00

I'll admit it. I was dreading this first. However, we made it 23 months before I thought it was time for Lincoln's first haircut. As much as I adore his little curls, it was getting a bit long in the back & matted. It sometimes looked like my parents Golden Retriever :)

Who would want to cut these gorgeous curls?!

It was a tough decision, but I decided it needed to be done. My aunt is a hairdresser, and she cuts my hair. I think she's the only one I'd trust right now with a pair of scissors near my sweet boys head.

Lincoln sat on his Grammy's lap, and my aunt trimmed away. She even gave him his very own comb to hold while she cut. I wasn't sure how he would do...I mean, he's a toddler! Toddlers are wiggly little worms!!

BUT...my sweet boy was a trooper. He didn't cry once, & was delighted with "helping" with his comb :)

He even tried to style his Grammy's hair :)

So now, I have a big boy. Isn't he handsome? :)

I'm hopeful that his curls will remain. Afterall, his Momma has some seriously curly hair! If his hair gets wet, it instantly curls, so I'm optimistic :)

Another "first" to check off the list. My sweet boy is growing up too fast!!

'Tis the Season [Giveaway]

2011-10-27T13:07:00.000-04:00

I am the crazy Christmas lady.

It seems that always around this time of the year, with the leaves changing and the temperatures dropping, that I cannot help but get excited for the most wonderful time of the year.

While some people might cringe at the sound of Christmas music, I shamelessly find delight in it. It brings me back to memories of my childhood. And now being a mother myself, I hope to instill our very own family memories of the Holidays with Lincoln.

Since having this sweet boy of mine, I get ridiculously excited about designing our Christmas cards. It becomes a bit of an obsession! I always order our cards from Shutterfly. Here's last years...

It's crazy to see how much Lincoln has grown up in just one year! He looks like a wee little baby in these photos! I am always pleased with the quality of the cards from Shutterfly. They also have a HUGE selection. So there is definitely something for everyone's individual taste.

This year here are my two front runners. The first one I like because it includes so many photos.

The second I adore because it is so bright & cheery. It's a bit like our design last year, but I still think I'm leaning more towards this card.

Shutterfly has kindly offered not one, but THREE of my readers the opportunity to win 25 holiday cards of their choosing!

This is a rafflecopter giveaway. You will need to open the widget to enter. Just follow the directions :)

Wordless Wednesday

2011-10-26T10:39:00.001-04:00

Tragedy.

2011-10-25T13:14:00.000-04:00

That seems to be my family's middle name lately.

Between everything with my Dad's liver transplant, and the recent passing of my 23 year old cousin, you'd think that would be enough.

Nope.

We just got a phone call this morning that Jared's cousin who was 37 weeks pregnant [Full freaking term], just lost her baby. She didn't feel the baby move much yesterday so went to get checked out last night. Her baby was already gone. She delivered at 8:30 this morning. A beautiful 6 pound little girl, Addison.

Enough is enough. I really don't know how much more my family can take.

That's all I've got.

Weekend Recap.

2011-10-24T12:45:00.000-04:00

Well, hello there. What a crazy weekend we had! On Saturday, we headed to Lincoln's cousins 2nd birthday party. Lincoln and this particular cousin are exactly one month apart. It's been so fun watching these two boys grow up together. The older they get, the more fun they are together. When they see one another they'll run up & give each other hugs. Sweetest thing ever!

The boys enjoyed playing outside in the brisk fall weather.

Lincoln gave Cayden a ride on his little car. Lincoln would much rather push these sort of toys, rather than ride on them...so it worked out!

I think my sweet boy NEEDS a playhouse. He went nuts over this thing!

When we left the party, we made the 2+ hour trip to Rhode Island to attend my cousins memorial fundraiser. It was family friendly until about 8:30pm or so...then the band needed to set up. Lincoln left around that time with his Grammy, while Jared & I stayed to support my other cousin, who put the event together.

People. I had a BABY [well, a cranky baby]...IN A BAR!!!

Ha! I love that line from Sweet Home Alabama! Jared & I had a great time mingling & enjoying the band...they were pretty awesome! We haven't done that since I was about 9 weeks pregnant with Lincoln. I DID however feel a teensy tiny bit old...being a Momma in a bar, ha! Oh well, such is life.

Sunday, Lincoln had his FIRST haircut...which I will post about another day :)

I hope you all had a great weekend!!

Momma's Boy

2011-10-21T13:45:00.002-04:00

This is my day today, folks!

I have a very clingy sweet baby boy on my hands. I hope he's feeling okay, because he will absolutely not let me put him down.

I guess I'll soak up the baby snuggles :)

Happy Friday!!!

Pinterest inspired toddler activity!

2011-10-20T14:12:00.000-04:00

Who loves Pinterest? I admit, I never wanted to sign up for this time suck, but once I did, I could never turn back! I am hooked!! I love all the creative ideas, tutorials, recipes, children's activities...I could go on and on.

I recently discovered this activity, & knew I had to try it with my sweet little Lincoln. Here are the supplies needed [all of which I had inside my house].

play-doh

uncooked spaghetti

cheerios

It's all really simple. I just made two "bases" out of the playdoh, & stuck some uncooked spaghetti into them. Next, I showed Lincoln that he could stack his cheerios onto the spaghetti :)

He LOVED it...as I thought he would :)

It seriously occupied him for quite some time. I wish I got a picture of his expression when I showed him the first cheerio stack around the spaghetti...he was amazed!

With the colder weather approaching, it's nice to have a fresh new indoor activity....& it works on his fine motor skills! I hope you try this with your toddler. Let me know how they like it :)

Wordless Wednesday

2011-10-19T11:10:00.001-04:00

Weekend Recap

2011-10-17T11:43:00.000-04:00

With all the craziness that has been happening in my life lately, it was nice to have a fun weekend. Jared & I had a wedding to go to on Saturday. Lincoln spent the day with one of my good friends and had a blast :)

It was great to get dressed up and go out on the town with my handsome hubby. The ceremony was so beautiful. The bride [Jared's cousin] looked amazing...the groom cried while he was reading his very sentimental vows. I think everyone in the church turned into a big ol' pile of mush!

There was a 3 hour gap between the ceremony & reception, so about 15 of us went to a nearby Mexican restaurant to grab some food. We figured we wouldn't be eating for a few hours at the wedding anyways.

The reception was at a CASTLE....obviously, it was amazing, to say the least. My favorite part of the evening was the photo booth! I wish they had these when Jared & I got married...so fun!!

We got back home around 11:30pm, and of course my little night owl was still awake! He was SO excited to see Daddy & Momma walk through the door. He screamed, "Yayyyyy!" & jumped into my arms giving me a hug that lasted at least 10 minutes :)

We spent Sunday at Jared's cousins house so he could get his car fixed. While we were at the wedding, Jared's headlights blew out, which led to us having to drive home with his high beams on!!! Lincoln had a blast playing with his cousins.

A great weekend, indeed. It was just what I needed.

Happy Fall!

2011-10-15T13:51:00.001-04:00

Rest in peace, little cousin.

2011-10-14T09:00:00.000-04:00

Not all endings are happy. Some are downright tragic. I wish I didn't have to write this post.

My cousin. My 23 year old cousin, is dead.

Apparently last Friday, he was pulled over for a motor vehicle stop. He was going to be charged with driving with a suspended license, & possession of marijuana with intent to distribute. This was not his first run in with the law. I don't want to go into his past, because it really doesn't matter. I will say, he has never hurt anyone. And despite his legal issues, he was a good person.

While they were waiting for the transportation vehicle, he somehow escaped...although he was handcuffed. He wound up jumping into a nearby river, & drowned. When they pulled him out of the river, he only had one hand in cuffs.

That's really all I can say about the details, for now. There's obviously a huge investigation going on, because seriously, how the hell did he escape?! Our family has many, many unanswered questions...some of which we might never have the answers to.

The bottom line is...a 23 year old man died. My aunts son is dead. My cousin who has been caring for my father in Florida, just lost his younger brother. I don't care what he was going to be charged with. He should not be dead.

Life isn't always pretty. In fact, it can be downright ugly. RIP to my cousin who used to ask me to paint his nails when he was a little boy. xoxo

What a week.

2011-10-13T13:19:00.000-04:00

Well, we're back home from visiting my Dad in Florida. & what a visit it has been. You all know he was called in for his transplant, yet unfortunately the donated liver wasn't in adequate condition for transplantation. So now, we wait. Again.

I was hoping he would get the call while we were there for 10 days, but no such luck.

If you follow me on Twitter, then you might know that while we were in Florida, my cousin passed away. He was only 23. That is a huge story in itself, and I will post about it another day. It's very sad, and tragic, and something that should have never happened.

Now, back to our trip to Florida.

Lincoln was a rock star traveler again! He knew what to expect on the plane, and tried putting his seat belt on the second we placed him in the seat!

He ended up falling asleep for a little while on Momma's lap :)

We were actually quite busy (surprise, surprise) our entire stay in Florida. We managed a trip to the Magic Kingdom one day, & hit up Epcot at night.

We went back to Sea World because we have tickets until the end of this year. Lincoln loved Shamu again :)

We got a caricature portrait done of Lincoln. I think it came out pretty good!!

& Lincoln's Daddy & uncle won him this giant Stay Puft Marshmallow man!!!

Because Marshmallow Man was so ridiculously huge, we traded him in for two smaller ones :)

We had a great visit, and even though we were there for 10 days, it still went by SO fast! I will hopefully be planning another trip with Lincoln some time in November.

Thank you to my guest bloggers for keeping my blog warm while I was away. If you missed their posts, you should check them out. They are all very read worthy. Hope you all had a great week!

Wordless Wednesday

2011-10-12T07:26:00.001-04:00

A post about PPD [Guest Blogger]

2011-10-11T09:00:00.000-04:00

Today I am featuring Libby over at Elf a Family Blog. Libby is going to talk about a very deep, sensitive subject. And, I'm so happy she is sharing her story with my readers. ..........................................................................................................................................

I've always suffered from stress and anxiety. Before getting pregnant, I'd been taking Zoloft. When I quit a few months before trying to conceive, I felt myself leave a cloud behind that I didn't know I'd been living in. Holy energy and focus...wow. While pregnant I suffered from pregnancy induced ADD (I don't know if this is proven, but I'm telling you, for me, it was).

6 weeks after having Thad I was diagnosed with PPD - I couldn't.stop.crying. I was crying about everything. I felt like the worst mother in the history of the world. I wondered if I'd ruined my life, my husband's life, and now the life of this little boy I'd brought into the world. I couldn't fathom making it to the next day. Being a parent was hard, harder than I'd ever thought possible. I didn't think I'd ever sleep again, read a book again, shower again...let alone feel sexy again...BUT after talking to the doctor and getting a prescription for Wellbutrin, my world slowly became manageable.

Last spring, I had to call the doctor and ask to decrease the dosage of medication. I was suffering from crazy rushes of energy - it was insane - I felt like I was on crack or something. My thoughts were racing, I couldn't focus, and I wasn't sleeping well. I was also about 45 lbs lighter than when I'd started the meds. Apparently that little factor can make a difference.

Now, as the the one year mark comes and goes, I've had to decrease the meds again. It's kind of hard to do your job and be a mom when you can't even focus long enough to make a grocery list. Oh and did you know they don't make Wellbutrin in 50 mg tabs? Nope, so for now, I'm cutting the 100's in half. While I'm excited to decrease the meds, I'm scared as shit. I'm not comfortable getting rid of the meds completely yet. These days are better than I could have ever imagined they would have been a year ago. I'm happy, I'm in love (with my husband and my son), Thad and his laugh, smile, face, his everything -- make me sooooo happy, I'm constantly thinking about having another baby - life is good.

And yet, every once awhile those feelings sneak in. I get down. The world sucks. Why can't the laundry get done? Why does my husband insist on not mowing the lawn? Why won't Thaddeus eat his dinner? All of those things add up and all of a sudden, I'm pissy, depressed, and hating the world. While it doesn't always last that long, the fact that it even happens drives me nuts. I swear, sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy or I've gone bipolar or something.

So for any of who are suffering, have suffered, or are just now being diagnosed - know this. It does get better. There will always be ups and downs, there will always be times you question your actions as a mother, there will always be times of stress in your marriage, but you can do this. Don't be ashamed of asking for help, taking medication, or just taking time for yourself. It will make you a better mother. Trust me, it will.

Elf a Family Blog

Becoming Super Mom [Guest Blogger]

2011-10-10T10:00:00.001-04:00

Today's featured guest blogger is Amber, over at It's the Middle that Counts. Amber is new to the blogging world, so feel free to stop by her page and show her some love! .........................................................................................................................................................................................

Hey everyone! I can’t even begin to tell you how excited I am to be guest blogging for Kami while she enjoys her time in Florida with her beautiful family. I love reading The Mommy Diaries and, I mean how could you not, Kami’s got one adorable little boy on her hands.

Speaking of adorable little boys, I have to admit that, although I may be a little biased, I’m pretty partial to this one.

My beautiful baby boy, Nicholas, was born April 9, 2011 and I was the epitome of the typical first time mom. I read every parenting article, baby book and mommy blog out there trying to figure out exactly how to become “super mom.” You know the type; they seem to have it all figured out. They can gracefully glide throughout their day without so much as an untied shoelace, let alone a major toddler tantrum in the middle of the supermarket. They cook, they clean, they create amazingly creative and imaginative projects for their children and their household without even breaking a sweat. Well, I was already a lover of baking and crafting, therefore I figured that if I could find a way to combine those loves with taking care of a baby full time, going to school to finish my degree and maintaining the household, then no question about it, I would be a “super mom.”

Let’s just say I got a very rude awakening during those first few weeks. Nicholas was born with a severe case of reflux and my husband and I practically lived at the doctor’s office and the NICU at Children’s Hospital. We slept in shifts in case Nicholas started gagging and choking and watched helplessly as Nick struggled for a while to maintain his weight.

I have never felt more helpless in my entire life than on the days I would watch Nicholas scream in pain and throw up everything he took in. It seemed like we simply weren’t making any progress and on one particularly bad night, as he was being admitted to the NICU, I realized that one of the reasons the situation was so difficult for me was because I felt like a failure. I felt like a complete failure as a wife and mother. I couldn’t make my child feel better, I couldn’t help him, I couldn’t make him happy and healthy.

That night was probably one of my lowest and I struggled with it for a long time afterward; however, I don’t anymore. Now that Nicholas has a new doctor and the right medications in the proper dosages, he is doing so much better. We still have some rough days, but they are nothing compared to what they used to be and the other day as we were lying on the floor playing with some of his favorite toys it struck me, I am super mom.

I’m still learning how to balance baking, being crafty and all of my other hobbies with being a full-time SAHM mom, Army wife and student, but I know my child like the back of my hand.

I know every tickle spot on that squirmy little body of his. I know what song he likes to hear while he’s falling asleep, and which blankie is his favorite. I know just how to make him giggle and laugh and I know what all of his favorite foods are, even if I sometimes end up wearing more of it than he eats. I know that he has very different cries and I know what each and every one of them mean.

In the last 6 months I have learned that the definition of “super mom” is completely different from what I originally thought and honestly, I wouldn’t have it any other way.

It's the Middle that Counts

A very special happy birthday....

2011-10-07T10:00:00.001-04:00

...to my hubby!! Hands off ladies, he's all mine ;)

Jared turns 29 today! I'm one year older than him, so he's REALLY enjoying that he stil has one more year left in his twenties! We're in Florida today...hopefully doing something super ridiculously fun to celebrate the love of my life and best Daddy in the whole world.

Jared has brought so much love and happiness to my life. He has given so much to me. His hand in marriage, he built our house, and gave me this beautiful family.

So, happy birthday to my amazing husband. I hope your day is filled with happiness and love! xoxo

Let's talk poop :::gag::: [Guest Blogger]

2011-10-06T10:00:00.000-04:00

Today I'm featuring Kat, over at It's Living Like the Kings. Kat has an adorable baby girl, that makes my ute ache for all things girly! Make sure you stop by her blog and check her out!.....................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Hi, my name is Kat and a wife, mom, and blogger over at It’s Living Like the Kings. I’m super excited that Kami is letting me entertain you guys today, but if you’re not into gross baby poop stories, I’d really consider coming back tomorrow. As a general note, my blog is not usually about poop, so you’re safe to click the link.

I should also tell you a couple of quick things about me:

I don’t do poop.

My baby’s name is Addison, but we call her Peanut.

Now on to the post.

The other day Jon, my husband, and I were getting ready for dinner while Peanut was hanging out in her exersaucer. Peanut seemed totally content and when it was time to sit everyone down at the table, I lifted her out of her exersaucer and put her on my hip. She smiled.

And then I smelt it.

Let me go back a couple of weeks and tell you that I am embarrassed to admit it, but I can’t take the new poop. A couple of weeks after her first solids, Peanut’s poop changed from being this non-smelly stuff I could deal with to pasty, yucky, smelly poop. And I can’t take it. As in, I gag. Meanwhile, Jon doesn’t seem to mind.

Now let’s fast forward to yesterday. And that smell. I looked at Peanut and asked her if she pooped. She smiled her toothless smile at me. So I smelled her butt, which stunk. Then I looked at her leg…and noticed a huge glob of poo hanging out of her diaper.

That’s when I, maturely, started gagging and yelling for Jon to help me. He came over and I showed him Peanut while handing her over. Then I looked at the exersaucer, which was covered in poo. And my shirt, which was covered in poo. Then I gagged. And whined. And gagged. Jon was standing there, laughing, while holding the poopy Peanut. Then he looked at me seriously and said that there was a huge glob of poop that’s about to fall on the floor. I looked around, seeing nothing and reached out and caught the huge glob of poop in my hand. Then I gagged. While holding poop in my hand.

Jon just kept laughing and headed for the baby room. I gagged. Washed the poop from my hand, changed my shirt, gagged, and went in to help.

After almost 15 minutes of cleaning poop off Peanut’s legs, back, arms, and belly button, she was finally clean and still smiling. And ready to eat some more food that will make her poop.

I guess it’s all just a vicious cycle. Gag.

Living Like the Kings

Wordless Wednesday

2011-10-05T10:00:00.000-04:00

Making an Effort [Guest Blogger]

2011-10-04T10:00:00.001-04:00

Today's featured guest blogger is one of my awesome internet Mommy friends. I've *known* Lady for a couple of years now, and honestly, I just adore her and her little family. She is funny, smart, beautiful, honestly I wish we didn't live across the country from one another! Please check her out at The Lady is...In. You won't be disappointed!!
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Today I ditched my usual uniform of hooded sweatshirt and jeans for... wait for it... a regular sweater and jeans. and I didn't put my hair in a ponytail. and when I emerged from the bathroom my 2 year old said "mommy go to work?"

Hrm. I don't work. But Elliot watches his dad get "dressed up" every morning and because I took a second to put myself together Elliot thought I had somewhere important to go.Methinks I should be making a bit of an "effort" more often.

I don't mean an effort for my husband's sake (although I'm sure he wouldn't mind seeing me looking less schlumptastic now and then.) I mean an effort for MY sake.

Moms' needs tend to become a last priority; even the cats eat lunch before I do around here. After I feed the boys, get them down, and hash out the stinky cat food I grab a handful of this and a swig of that for myself and call it good. There was a day last week where I started to get a POUNDING headache at noon and was genuinely puzzled as to its source. I thought "I've had 2 cups of coffee today, this isn't a caffeine headache... what is it?!" and then I realized... I hadn't had a single thing to eat. I had been up since 6 am, and had fed both my boys 2 meals by then, but hadn't managed to remember to feed myself. This is a problem.

The appearance thing, this "making an effort" isn't just about looking nice. It's about taking a few minutes at the start of my day to focus on MYSELF, something I honestly rarely do these days. It's about taking the time to make a choice that will make me feel my best for the rest of the day. Whether that choice be oh, I don't know, EATING or taking a minute to put on some make up.

While moms often end up coming in last, I'm finding that I am often the only one putting myself there. It's a hard thing to do as a mom, to take selfish moments. But to take a moment to take care of myself actually makes me a better MOM. It isn't just about ditching an ill-fitting sweatshirt either. That little headache I unintentionally starved myself into? It took me over 24 hours to get rid of it, and for those 24 hours I was definitely not at my best in the Mom department. So focusing on what makes me feel better as an individual is a good thing for my boys, my husband and - yes - for me too.
So sometimes focusing on me might mean letting go of the uber-present ponytail, some days it might mean some mascara, and other days it might mean slipping on my favorite, completely stretched-out hoodie. (Hey, wearing pjs all day if you want to is one of the perks of the job as well.) But taking a moment is some days the only way to make sure that I'm a Mom who is fed. And other days taking that moment is what makes me a mom who feels pulled-together, which makes me a Mom who feels good about herself. All of those things make me better for my boys so... focusing on ME every now and then is actually not selfish at all.

Elliot is out "golfing, on the GOLF COURSE" with his dad, and Grayson is babbling happily to himself in the crib. I could go get him... or I could take a moment to eat some breakfast. Breakfast it is.

The Lady is...In

Well this sucks

2011-10-03T11:18:00.001-04:00

So remember how I said my dad got a call for his liver transplant?

Unfortunately, after they checked out the donated liver, they determined it wasn't suitable for transplantation.

Yeah. Sucks. Big time.

In the bright side, we're in Orlando for 10 days.

Keep your fingers, toes, & everything crossed that he gets the real call while we're here.

On another note, while I'm away I have some great guest bloggers lined up...as well as a couple scheduled posts from myself. Make sure you check them out!!

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes for my Dad. They are very appreciated.

Farm Rich Snacks [Review & Giveaway]

2011-10-03T09:00:00.001-04:00

Who loves party food? I sure do. Sometimes I'll go out to eat at a restaurant, & just order appetizers. Yummy!!

So, when Farm Rich contacted me & asked me to review one of their products, my tummy started grumbling!!

Mozzerella sticks are one of my most favorite appetizers. I love the cheesiness! When I saw Farm Rich's cheese sticks, I knew I must try them! I'm not just saying this, but these are hands down the best frozen cheese sticks I have ever tasted. I've noticed when you buy cheese sticks to cook at home, they often don't turn out as yummy as they do at a restaurant. There's just something that's not right. Something is missing. Well, what is missing is they're not Farm Rich cheese sticks! These are seriously cheese stick perfection!!

Lucky for you, one of my readers gets the chance to win two coupons to try any Farm Rich products! This is my first Rafflecopter giveaway, just follow the directions :)

It's transplant time...

2011-10-02T04:07:00.002-04:00

Bare with me, I'm a bit shaken up. My dad just got the call for his liver transplant. He is going in for surgery at 6am this morning.

We changed our flight plans and are flying out this afternoon. I cannot NOT be there.

If you have any spare thoughts and prayers to send my dads way, I would be so appreciative.

I'm scared.

I was a single mom for three days.

2011-09-29T09:00:00.001-04:00

Okay. So, obviously I'm being a bit dramatic, considering my husband was in the Police Academy for six months & I was basically a single parent then. And, clearly it was much more difficult than a measly three days. But, the title seemed fitting :)

Jared had to go away for training Monday, Tuesday, & Wednesday of this week. Which meant, it was just me and my sweet boy [as well as our cat & puppy]. I wanted the three days to go by quickly, and have some great "Mommy/Lincoln" time. He's also been on one heck of a nap strike lately, so I was really hoping I wouldn't have a cranky toddler on my hands.

Monday I decided we would head to Lincoln's favorite playground & the bookstore. Well, of course he fell asleep on our way there, so I let him nap in the car while I played on my phone. I decided when he woke up we'd hit up Kohls really really quickly. I was in dire need of a new pair of sunglasses, especially considering I'm going to Orlando next week. Mine broke. Again. Which is why I refuse to spend a fortune on sunglasses.

Lucky for me, because it's the end of the season, almost all of their sunglasses were on clearance! I was able to get a super cute pair for only $6!!! Now I won't feel so bad when I break them. Because, I KNOW it will happen.

Once we were finished at Kohls, we hit up the playground. Unfortunately, it was ridiculously hot & humid outside. Lincoln even asked me to leave after only being there for ten minutes. I don't blame him. It was HOT!!

After the playground, we walked over to the bookstore. The playground we visit frequently just so happens to be smack dab in the middle of an outdoor shopping center. It's perfect really. Lincoln happily played in the kids section for quite sometime. It was a fun day for us both.

Tuesday was spent hanging out around the house. I have a lot to get done before we leave next week. Oliver helped me do the laundry. He especially loved snuggling up with Daddy's clean socks :)

Dinner was interesting that night. I figured on just making grilled cheese for Lincoln and me. However, Lincoln would not leave me alone for a second. UNLESS, I had this bucket on my head.

Oh no, I'm not kidding you. I cooked with this bucket on my head. If I took it off, a complete meltdown took place. If I left it on, he smiled, clapped, and happily played with his pots & pans on the floor. Maybe I'm a sucker. But whatever.

Wednesday I had an appointment with my therapist in the morning. I'm feeling really good lately, however, I know it's important I keep up with my appointments. So, despite the urge to cancel to indulge in some shopping, I went.

We played outside when I came home. Evy even joined in. She was seriously "herding" Lincoln. If he would attempt to go out of the little space we were playing in, she'd herd him back in. I love this dog.

Now, it's back to normalcy, whatever that is. Lots & lots to do before our big trip next week. I hope you all have a great day :)

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-28T09:00:00.000-04:00

Rawr!!!

2011-09-27T11:53:00.001-04:00

My little monster man :)

American Greetings Stick2it [Giveaway Winner]

2011-09-27T10:35:00.000-04:00

The winner of the sample pack of Stick2it decals from American Greetings is.....

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Comment #36...ticklemetiffyyyy!!! Congratulations, I will be emailing you soon! Thank you to all who entered!!

I love his legs.

2011-09-26T09:00:00.000-04:00

The other day I was reading one of my favorite blogs, Making Something Good, and she was talking about how much she loves her son's legs. Liz is another Mom who has OI, just like myself, and her sweet boy is just like Lincoln, a little miracle, who is strong and OI free.

I totally understood where she was coming from. I have told Lincoln numerous amounts of times, how much I love his perfect, strong legs. Look at those chunky legs :)

Sure his legs have slimmed out some, now that he's walking. BUT, he's walking. Something I have never done without the assistance of some device. Seeing my son walk is something I take pride in. And seeing him run? Well that's pretty amazing too! Seeing him have such delight jumping on the bed? How can I tell him not to do it? He's having so much fun, and it's something I am SO happy he can do!

It's the little things that make me happy. But, Lincoln's strong legs? That's a big thing. It's a thing that makes my heart practically burst with happiness. It might seem like something so simple to others. But to me, it's huge, and I am forever thankful. Knowing I created a perfect, sweet baby boy, is truly a miracle.

Little man shoes.

2011-09-25T10:00:00.000-04:00

Perhaps the only thing cuter than these "little man" shoes, will be my dapper sweet boy, wearing them. Happy Sunday!

I'm going to "Brag About It."

2011-09-23T09:00:00.000-04:00

Way back over a year now, I did my first ever giveaway on my blog. It was from Melissa, owner of Brag About It. I didn't get to review one of their products, just give away a gift certificate to one of my [ridiculously] lucky readers.

I've wanted a "Mommy necklace" for awhile now. I have one that I ordered from another company [who's name I will not mention], but I was a little disappointed in the quality.

I follow Brag About It on Facebook, and I'm always loving their new styles. Also, the shop owner is SO nice, down to earth, and just an easy person to work with. I decided it was time to order the Mommy necklace I really wanted.

I contacted Melissa and asked if she could do a custom order for me. The song "You are my Sunshine," has always held a special meaning for me and my sweet boy. I asked if she could put that quote on one large disc, with Lincoln's name on a smaller disc, and add his birthstone. Here's what she sent to me... She even added an extra disc that has a sun on it. Isn't it gorgeous?!

I love love LOVE it. Seriously. It's perfect. It's the Mommy necklace I have wanted since I became a Mommy :)

& it goes with anything...even a messy ponytail, sweat pants, & a hoodie :)

So, thank you Melissa, for allowing me to Brag About It! Your work is truly beautiful.

Please note: I was in no way compensated for this review. I purchased this gorgeous hand stamped necklace from Brag About It. I am writing this because I am truly in love with this perfect piece of jewelry.

Goodbye to makeup & mirrors?

2011-09-22T09:00:00.000-04:00

That's right folks. That’s what’s happening at a British school, in northern England, which not only banned makeup for its 13- to 16-year-old students, but also took down the bathroom mirrors. This new approach is aimed to get teenage girls to focus on what's really important, rather than perfecting their beauty skills.

Do I agree with this? Actually. No.

I believe schools are over-stepping their boundaries a little too much here. I think if a parent allows their teenager to wear makeup [within reason], then so be it. It's their choice. I'm not talking bright blue eyeshadow and sexy red lips, however, what is so wrong with a little respectable makeup?

Now onto the fact that the school took down the mirrors. This to me is horrifying. Isn't it a known fact that teenagers struggle with self-esteem? In my opinion, removing the mirrors doesn't scream "embrace your natural beauty" to me. To a teenager it says, "I am ashamed of what I look like. Wouldn't it be better if I just disappeared?" Hence removing their mirror images.

Maybe I'm being a little mellow dramatic here, but I really do not agree whatsoever with this approach. If you want an angst teenager, then by all means, carry on. However, this school stating that teenage girls are far too concerned with beauty rather than academics, kind of seems funny to me. The school itself seems far too concerned with eliminating makeup and mirrors, rather than implementing motivational education programs, to engage their students.

Just my two cents. What are your feelings? To read the article click here.

My boys.

2011-09-21T10:00:00.000-04:00

I love watching the special "Father/Son" moments between my two boys.

Happy Wednesday!!

My cutie little helper.

2011-09-20T11:00:00.000-04:00

Lincoln loves helping his Momma! He's my best little helper when it comes time to change over the laundry. See for yourself :)

Stick2it by American Greetings [Review & Giveaway]

2011-09-20T09:00:00.002-04:00

When American Greetings contacted me & asked if I'd like to review one of their new products, Stick2it, I was pretty darn excited! If you have ever seen the interior of my house, you would know I have a thing for wall decals. We have a bunch of quotes adhered to our walls in pretty much every single room. So obviously I was ridiculously excited when I received this huge sample pack in the mail.....

Stick2it offers a HUGE assortment of decals. Not only do they offer them for the wall, but also for your car, phone, and laptop!

They are easy peasy to apply, AND they're repositionable, which is a huge bonus.

I really like their iPhone skins. I have a white iPhone, and it really dresses up the back of it :)

My favorite out of the decals would definitely be the family car decals. I love how it even has a dog & cat so your fur babies can be included!

Stick2it has generously offered one of my readers their very own sample pack! Here's how to enter:

Mandatory Entries: [please include email]

Visit Stick2it and tell me what your favorite decal is! [1 entry/comment]

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This giveaway will end on Monday, September 26th at 11:59PM EST. Winner will be announced [chosen from random.org]. Winner will have 48 hours to respond, or a new winner will be chosen. Open to US and Canadian residents only.

Please note: I was provided these super cute decals free of charge. I was in no way compensated for this review. These opinions are my own.

Weekend Recap

2011-09-19T10:00:00.000-04:00

Another fun weekend for our household! And, of course it was busy...as always! We had lots on our agenda to take care of...& we wanted to throw a little bit of fun in there as well :)

Lincoln enjoyed some pancakes for breakfast with his partner in crime, Oliver. This cat is ridiculous. And no, he's totally not allowed on the table, he is just very obstinate. We decided to head to Ikea, in an attempt to find Lincoln a "big boy" bed. As you know, Lincoln has been co-sleeping with us since Jared went into the Police Academy LAST September....so, for a year now. As much as I enjoy snuggling my sweet boy every night, I know it's best for us all if we make the transition sooner, rather than later. Lincoln was very excited to be going out with Mommy & Daddy for the day :)

We knew we wanted to get Lincoln a twin bed. As cute as the toddler beds were, they just didn't seem practical to me. Especially considering he's been sleeping in our king bed for a year. I don't think he'd be a fan of the lack of space, to say the least.

We ended up getting him a daybed, although it doesn't look like a traditional daybed to me. It's also a trundle bed underneath, in case we ever wanted to expand it for him...AND, it has two drawers for storage...a HUGE plus!

Jared spent a few hours assembling his bed, while I kept Lincoln occupied. Here's the results....

And of course Oliver likes the bed as well. I have a feeling he'll be keeping Lincoln company in there!!

We chose to go with a "transportation theme" for his big boy room. His nursery was stars, so it was pretty easy to just add the transportation details to the existing decor. We also got this super cute rug from Ikea to match his bedding [which we got from Target]....oh, and this rug was ONLY 15 bucks! Such a steal!!

Lincoln isn't sleeping in there quite yet. We're actually going to be getting a tv for his room [don't judge]! I know it will help with the transition, and honestly, I'll try just about anything.

Jared and I also managed to get out for a couple hours just the two of us, to head to a retirement party for one of his fellow officers. I was really looking forward to this, because I knew I'd meet some of the guys he works with. While it wasn't exactly the "police ball" I was hoping for since Jared's become an officer, it was still a good time. One of the Sergeants actually reminded me of "Mr. Big" from Sex & the City...which I found hysterical. It was nice to be out, just the two of us, even if it was only for a couple hours.

When we came home, our sweet boy was very excited to see us, and full of energy. He actually played with his puppy, Evy for a little while...AND I even managed to get a [blurry] picture!

We'll be starting "operation big boy bed" sometime in the near future. Wish us luck! I'm not sure who it's going to be harder on...Lincoln or myself!

Guest Bloggers Wanted!!!

2011-09-17T10:00:00.002-04:00

It's that time again! We're heading back to Orlando the beginning of October to visit my Dad...& I need a few guest bloggers lined up!

What am I looking for? Anything really. You can submit a post you have already previously blogged about that you really love, and got great feedback from....or, you can send me something completely fresh and new!

I will tell you the day and time your post will be scheduled to appear on my blog.

All I ask is that the day I post your post, you write a post on your blog telling your readers you're being featured on my blog for the day, and link to my blog.

Sounds easy peasy, right?! All interested parties please email me at Kaymee81@gmail.com Looking forward to hearing from you!!

Does the term "Mommy Blogger" offend you?

2011-09-16T09:00:00.000-04:00

I've seen a lot of posts recently about how bloggers are starting to become offended by being referenced to as a "Mommy Blogger." I'm assuming the problem these bloggers are having is they believe their writing won't be taken seriously because it only comes from a "Mommy Blogger." They won't be considered a "serious writer," because their only a Mommy Blogger.

Am I offended by this title? No. In fact, I like this title. I am a Mom. I am a blogger. AND, I am a writer. To me, the title is a compliment. I am writing about my life....being a Mommy is a HUGE part of my life.

Apparently "Mommy Bloggers" have a rep as only posting for the opportunity to review [free] products, and have poor grammar and punctuation.

Well guess what, this Mommy Blogger has a college degree in :::gasp::: English!

Writing is what I do. It's what I've always done. I'm good at writing. It has always come naturally to me. I was that girl in school who LOVED essay tests or short answers. Because, even if I didn't know the correct answer, I could "write my way out of it."

In my Senior year of high school, we were asked a question for our yearbook. "Where do you see yourself in ten years?" Many put married with kids. Some put traveling around the world. I wrote, "the editor of a successful magazine."

Am I the editor of a successful magazine? Well, no.

BUT, I am writer of this ridiculously awesome "Mommy Blog" called The Mommy Diaries :)

So, if someone calls you a "Mommy Blogger," take it as a compliment. Don't let other people's insecurities get you down. Be proud of that title, and cherish it. Not everyone can own it.

People can be so ignorant!

2011-09-15T09:00:00.002-04:00

I have put off writing this post, because it really pisses me off, honestly. I'm not a bitter person by any means. However, ignorance is something I just cannot phathom.

Because I use a wheelchair when out in public, it's amazing the looks I get from people when I'm out with Lincoln by myself. Most of the time, I'm completely oblivious to it, because I'm so focused on Lincoln....and honestly, a bit used to it. But while we were traveling a few weeks ago, some people were just plain rude!

Here's an example: I was traveling with my Mom and Lincoln. Both times when we were checking in for our flights and we handed over our licenses and Lincoln's birth certificate, I heard the comment, "that's HER baby?!" Seriously?! I mean, come on people. It's two thousand freaking eleven. Yes, I do have a physical disability, but I also have this thing called a life, and it's pretty darn awesome.

When we were at Sea World, my Mom and I were in the restroom. This woman was chatting with us when she said something about my "little brother." I said, "actually that's my son." You should have seen the look of disbelief on her face! Then she went on a rant about how much my Mom must help me out. Umm, no, actually my Mom lives 2 1/2 hours away. Another look of "shock."

I just think it's about time some people grow up. Oh, and while I'm on this rant. PLEASE let your children ask me all the questions they want. Do not "shhh" them! I never mind answering questions for kids! However, the ignorant adults need to put a sock in it....to put it nicely :)

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-14T09:00:00.000-04:00

Weekend Recap

2011-09-13T10:50:00.005-04:00

Thankfully this week's "weekend recap" post is much more timely than last weeks! We have a very busy weekend. Jared was off from work the entire weekend, and that's only something that happens every 6ish weeks or so! My Mom works in retail, and she has every other weekend off. It just so happened both their weekends off happened to coincide with eachother's!

Jared's been itching to play hockey. He has played since he was a little boy. He used to play ice, but now he plays roller. He's VERY good....& I'm really not even being biased! He played on a pro team for a few years but took a break when we had Lincoln. This year he's going to be playing pro again, but for the Rhode Island team....which I'm super psyched about, because that means more trips home to see my family :)

Anyways, he played in a tournament this past weekend in Rhode Island with his new team, and I visited with my family! It worked out perfectly, on all parts :)

Lincoln was so excited to be at his Grammy's house! He even chatted with his Grandpa on the phone while he was there...

My Mom & I brought Lincoln to see his Daddy play hockey for one of his games [he had six]! While Lincoln didn't pay too much attention to the game [he was much more interested in playing the drums on the bleachers], I know it meant the world to Jared to have him there. He showed him off to all the "guys" afterwards. It's funny seeing all these "manly men" swoon over a toddler!

Jared also skated with Lincoln. I know he's been dying to do that with his son since the moment he was born. Lincoln LOVED every second of it. He is such a little daredevil! Despite Jared saying he doesn't want Lincoln to play hockey [because it's dangerous], I think we'll be buying Lincoln his first pair of skates sooner than later :)

After the game [which they won], we went out for dinner....where my sweet boy insisted on eating his grilled cheese with a fork!

We also brought our sweet pup, Evy with us for the weekend. She is a great little traveler in the car, and loves the dogs at my parents house. She is getting SO big SO fast! She seriously doesn't even look like a puppy anymore...she looks like a miniature German Shepherd! She's soooo pretty..... On Sunday, Jared finished up his tournament, which they won! Lincoln & I hung out at my Mom's. Lincoln enjoyed a canoli...

We got home late Sunday night, when my silly boy decided to party in Momma's bed!

He does this all the time....he goes in between the foot board & mattress. He thinks he's hysterical :)

Another great fun, family weekend! Oh, and I still haven't even looked for another USB cable for my camera...so we're still using my iPhone photos....which I think aren't so bad! I think I might sell my point & shoot camera...my iPhone seems to do a better job!

Hope you all had a great weekend :)

Lovable Labels [Giveaway Winner]

2011-09-13T10:14:00.000-04:00

Now, for the moment you've all been waiting for. The winner of their very own Back to School Pack from Lovable Labels is................................................................................................................................................................................................................................

Comment #32.... Shannon!!!!!! Congratulations! I will be emailing you shortly. Thanks to all who entered!

911

2011-09-11T10:00:00.000-04:00

10 years.

Wow.

Where were you?

I was in biology lab in college when I heard the news. I don't think I really understood at that time exactly what was going on with our country. I knew it was bad. But, I don't think I knew exactly how bad it really was.
A country in complete devastation.

Today we remember 10 years. A date that we will all remember. A day we will never forget.

Want a free $5? And, who loves Ecomom?!

2011-09-09T14:22:00.002-04:00

I'm just mildly obsessed with deals.

Okay, who am I kidding? I'm VERY obsessed! I recently discovered Plum District. It's one of those deal sites like Groupon or Living Social. Right now, if you sign up here, you can get $5 off your first deal!

Right now they have an offer that is really too good to pass up. Have you heard of EcoMom? Well, I have a love affair with their website. I get those fruit/veggie pouches for Lincoln there, as well as Melissa & Doug Toys, amongst many many other things.

Plum District is currently offering new members not only $5 off their first deal purchased, but for $30 you can get a $60 giftcard to EcoMom! If you use your $5 credit, that deal goes down to $25 for $60 worth of merchandise! Not only is this super awesome, but right now EcoMom is offering FREE SHIPPING!!!!

Well, you know I jumped right all over this deal....& I hope you will too. To get started click here . But, HURRY because it won't last for long!!!

Some Silliness for your day!

2011-09-09T09:00:00.000-04:00

Have a great weekend! Hope you enjoy! :)

Weekend Recap

2011-09-08T11:20:00.000-04:00

Yes, before you remind me that today is Thursday, I know. I am just a little bit late with my "Weekend Recap" post. Oh well, life gets busy sometimes, what can I say!

We did have a VERY fun filled weekend. Although Jared had to work on Saturday, he was off Sunday & Monday. We took full advantage of this, and had some much needed family time.

On Sunday we had a few errands to run, but we ended our day with taking Lincoln to the Rainforest Cafe for dinner! He was just there a week ago in Orlando, but not with his Daddy. Lincoln really likes it there, with the exception of the thunderstorm every 30 minutes. Here he is with his Daddy, while we were waiting for our yummy food.

Monday we headed out to a local fair nearby. I know it's not *technically* fall yet, but I love all the fairs that come with fall! A lot of them are no different from the next, but it just reminds me of my childhood...& who can pass up yummy fair food?! Lincoln was all about the corn dog...

& with the exception of letting his Daddy have a few bites...he literally devoured the ENTIRE corn dog!!!

As much as he enjoyed his fair food, there was also a dog agility presentation going on. He LOVED that! He was pointing at all the dogs saying "puppy." And, each time when the dogs finished running the course he clapped, threw his hands up in the air, and celebrated :)

We had a wonderful holiday weekend, & I think Lincoln would agree :)

Wordless Wednesday

2011-09-07T10:00:00.000-04:00

Lovable Labels [Review & Giveaway]

2011-09-06T10:00:00.005-04:00

Anything stationary related always gets me excited. Pens, pencils, notebooks....you name it. Labels would also fit into this category, and who doesn't love labeling things?! And you know what's even more crazy? As much as I like labeling things, my husband enjoys it even more! For example...we have one of those ornament storage boxes that has all the dividers specifically for Christmas ornaments. Well, my label maniac husband labeled that box "ornaments." :)

So you know I was over the moon happy when Lovable Labels offered me the opportunity to review their Back to School Pack! I chose to review their Movin' & Groovin' pack.

What I liked most about these labels, is all of them are together in this neat little booklet. It is much easier to place this booklet into a drawer, rather than have a bunch of label sheets scattered all over the place. The labels are soooo cute! I really like how there are tabs that tell you specifically what each label is meant to be used for.

Even though Lincoln doesn't go to school yet, I still find these labels quite handy. Maybe it's just because I'm a label freak, but I think having his personal belongings labeled is a nice thing to do. And, I know all the other Momma's at the playground are jealous when they see something of Lincoln's sporting these super cute labels :)

Now, for the part you've been waiting for. Lovable Labels has generously offered one of my readers [US & Canada] the chance to win their very own Back to School Pack of their choice! Here's how to enter [please leave a separate comment for each entry]:

Mandatory Entries: [please include email]

Visit Lovable Labels and tell me which pack you'd choose! [1 entry/comment]

Follow my blog publicly [1 entry/comment]

Additional Entries:

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Tweet "#WIN a #backtoschool pack from @MyLovableLabels and @TheMommaDiaries http://themommadiaries.com/2011/09/lovable-labels-review-giveaway.html" [1 entry/comment per tweet per day]

Vote for me in the 2011 Parents Best All Around Mom Blog [1 entry/comment]

This giveaway will end on Monday, September 12th at 11:59PM EST. Winner will be announced [chosen from random.org]. Winner will have 48 hours to respond, or a new winner will be chosen. Open to US and Canadian residents only.

Please note: I was provided these super cute labels free of charge. I was in no way compensated for this review. These opinions are my own.

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The Next Michelangelo?

Baby Talk

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Weekend Recap

Discipline

Wordless Wednesday

Lincoln's 2nd Birthday Bash!

Our Christmas Card!

Imagination at it's best!

Lincoln's First Trip to the ER

[almost] Wordless Wednesday

Lincoln's 2 Year Stats

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Two Years Old

Lincoln's 2nd Year [video]

Birthday Sneak Peak

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Thankful Thursday

Wordless Wednesday

A Mother's Love is Infinite

Peter Rabbit Organics [Review & Giveaway]

A Case of the Sickies

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Family Photos

Living in the Dark

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Wordless Wednesday

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Weekend Recap.

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Wordless Wednesday

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Wordless Wednesday

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A very special happy birthday....

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Wordless Wednesday

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Rawr!!!

American Greetings Stick2it [Giveaway Winner]

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Goodbye to makeup & mirrors?

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